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Children's speech therapy

Selective mutism

Some children talk freely at home but freeze in certain places, like school or around new people. This is often selective mutism, and it is rooted in anxiety, not stubbornness or shyness by choice. With a gentle, patient approach, children can learn to feel safe enough to speak in more places.

What you might notice

  • Talks comfortably at home but goes silent at school or in public
  • Freezes or looks panicked when expected to speak
  • Communicates with nods or gestures instead of words in tough settings
  • Has been quiet in certain places for a month or more
  • Seems to want to speak but cannot get the words out

How we help

We start by lowering the pressure entirely and building a sense of safety, then take small, careful steps toward speaking. Terri sets the plan and Allee delivers the sessions under her supervision. We move at a pace that respects your child's anxiety, and we partner with you and, when helpful, with school.

What a session looks like

Early sessions may not ask for any talking at all. We build comfort through play and connection first, then gently widen the circle of where and with whom your child feels able to speak. Every step is celebrated and never forced.

We adjust our pace and expectations to your child's age and comfort, since pushing too fast tends to backfire with anxiety.

Ready when you are

There is no waitlist, so you can start soon. Reach out and we will respond the same day or the next business day to find a time that works for you.

Not sure where to start? The 15-minute call is free and there is no pressure. You can also call or text (479) 310-5174.

Common questions

Is my child just being shy or difficult?+

Neither. Selective mutism is an anxiety-based response, not a choice or defiance. Your child likely wants to speak but feels physically unable to in certain settings, and gentle support helps.

Will you pressure my child to talk?+

No. Pressure usually makes anxiety worse. We build safety and comfort first, then take tiny, manageable steps forward at a pace your child can handle.

Can you work with my child's school?+

Yes, when that helps. Since school is often where the anxiety shows up, coordinating with teachers can make a real difference, and we are glad to help.

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